The Man your Man could smell like

I love this commercial.

The Man Your Man Could Smell Like

If only it were actually like this.  If only you could apply something as simple as deodorant and turn into someone else completely.  But we know... life isn't like that.  If you want to change yourself, improve yourself... it takes hard work.  Wanna lose weight? You gotta eat right and exercise.  Wanna go to a great college?  You have to study while everyone else is playing.  Wanna have great family relationships later on?  Then you have to honor your parents right now.  Wanna have great marriages later on?  Then you need to guard yourself and your heart right now while everyone else is dating and doing whatever they please.

The point is... live like no one else now... so you can live like no one else later.

-P. Kev

LENT

Lent starts today... Ash Wednesday.  Have you thought about what you're going to give up for Lent?  I haven't figured it out yet.  Too many things I want to give up... and yet can't live without.

And that's a shame.  Jesus is asking to spend a little bit more time with me. He wants me to give up something so I can use that time to spend with him instead.  And all I'm thinking about is how much I can't live without those things... but how much more can I live without him?

What in your life is getting in the way of spending time reading the Word and praying? What in your life is getting in the way of forming a tighter relationship with your Savior?  What in the world is MORE worth it?

As we think about what we want to give up... I hope it reveals the true state of our relationship with Jesus... and the love for our Savior.

Where do you stand?  What will you give up?

-P. Kev

Website Update

Whew.  It takes a lot to update a whole entire website.  But a little bit at a time... that's what matters.

I just wanted to take a second to really explore the notion of character and how it applies to our everyday life.  Character is EVERYTHING.  You will rise and fall based on your character.  So even in the darkest corners of your life... where you think no one's watching... no one is looking... that's when your character means the most.  Because even if you think no one's watching... God is patiently observing us.  Will we be patient?  Will we be loving?  Will we take the high road?  Can we be accountable when it seems like no one cares or it doesn't matter?  Can we keep our emotions in check?

Character is EVERYTHING.  On Facebook, on MySpace, in emails, in texts... in phone conversations.

What kind of character are you building?  As a young man or woman... the actions you take now shape your character forever.  That's a big deal.  People who live with regrets right now... people in prison... people living with guilt... they didn't intend on growing up and ending where they were.  They didn't grow up wanting to be criminals, wanting to be on the wrong side of the law.  But they compromise a little here... and then compromised a little there... and before they knew it, they threw their character away.

1 Timothy 4:12 - "... But set an example for the believers in speech, in life, in love, in faith, and in purity."

-P Kev.

what the what?

How come the website's been dormant for so long?

Cause there's a rehaul coming, sucka.

Wait for it...

Agreed.

Here's a great article from Jeff Elkins.  To most of you... this isn't gonna hit home.  But to those of you that really understand this... you need to help.

Here's where the article's from:
http://www.catalystspace.com/content/read/something_more/



Recently my family and I had an incredible experience at a church in Baltimore.  The church did everything perfectly.

• The front door was held open for us by a gentleman with a kind smile.  I immediately felt welcomed. 
• The layout of the entry way was awesome.  Even though it was my first time at the church, and there were a ton of people coming in and out, the natural flow of traffic let me know exactly where to go. 
• The welcome desk was well labeled and prominent on the left hand side of the entry way.  It was staffed with friendly helpful people; and there were no lack of easy to approach greeters with clearly visible nametags standing around expectantly hoping someone would ask them a question.
• Beyond the Welcome desk there was a room full of breakfast treats and the smell of coffee was in the air (a huge plus for me).
• A greeter identified us as visitors and led us to the Children's check in area. 
• The Children's Sunday School Check-In Desk was also extremely easy to find.  Check-in there was great.  One of the workers escorted us to the classrooms, explained to us the security procedures, and answered any and all the questions we could possibly have.
• The worship service was impeccably pulled off.  The music was sincere, not showy in anyway.  There were multiple worship leaders, but it was extremely smooth and enjoyable.  The songs were relevant, fresh, and easy to pick up for someone who might not know them.  They did a great job of trying to help people engage Christ without terrifying those that might be new the the church experience.
• The sermon was clear, relevant, and engaging.  The pastor's points were well thought out and communicated.  My attention was held the entire time.  There were no unnecessary rabbit trails or rants.  It was challenging but not offensive, informative but not burdensome, fun but not ridiculous.  It was a good message.
• After the service we went to get our kids and they were beaming.  Yes...that's right...our kids loved Sunday School there.  Usually a new church experience will send them all into tears, but not this time.  They couldn't stop sharing stories about how much fun they had.

This church is a well oiled machine.  They have it down.  They do all the things church growth authors say should be done to create a wonderful church experience.  They pull off an excellent attractional worship service.
As we drove home I asked Wendy what she thought.  Reflectively she said, "That would be a very comfortable place to fall into, but there has to be something more."   I agreed, "Yeah.  That was amazing...but I don’t believe it is going to turn Baltimore upside down for Jesus."
Now, please don't think we are being judgmental or critical when we say "there must be something more."  You must understand:
First, I think this church is incredible.  I have attended a lot of churches, and I've never been to one that pulled off an attractional worship service like they did.  Seriously, they did an amazing job.
Second, please know that I am very much part of this church; and therefore commenting on myself as much as my experience this past Sunday.

Now I'm not a member; but I celebrated and worked in churches like this one over the years.  I applauded when churches like this one risked everything, denied all contemporary wisdom, and fought the status-quo to become environments that were comfortable and inviting to outsiders.  I cheered as these churches put down the hymnals and put lyrics on easy to see screens; as they got rid of the traditional pews and went to more comfortable stadium seating.  I defended speakers that were struggling to give sermons in more "seeker friendly" ways and did my best to mimic them.  I got fired-up about worship music becoming more like the music my generation listened to.  I created environments that were fun, comfortable, and exciting, and then instructed the congregation to "bring their lost friends next week!"  I've built crazy sets for Sunday mornings, hung flyers on door knobs, cooked pancake breakfasts, pulled off insane visual illustrations, put on Easter pageants and Hell Houses, delivered invitations with soft music playing behind me, and on, and on, and on...

So you see, when I speak about the attractional church I am not an outsider.  It is very much a part of me. It has defined my walk with Christ. It has been the beat of my heart; but recently my heart has begun to ache.

So back to "something more..."

My problem is two fold:

First - I believe that the church is the only organization that can bring healing to the pain of Baltimore.  Because it is the only group empowered by the Holy Spirit, it is the only group that can bring dead things to life.

Second - the things that used to work, the things that used to excite people about coming to church, the stuff that used to bring people to the healing power of Jesus, now seems to be the status quo and are no longer working like they used to.  The people in my community that are disconnected from God are not attracted to our worship services any more, no matter how relevant we make them.  (This is not just my personal experience.  There are tons of studies out there now showing that less and less people every year are attending church.)  They don't care what the music is like.  They don't care how relevant the message is. They don't care if it is welcoming an inviting.

You see, the attractional based model assumes that there are groups of people out there that would attend a worship service if that worship service was simply welcoming and inviting.  One author I read recently called these groups of people "window shoppers."  The goal of the attractional church has been to create a beautiful window that would draw people in...but these groups seem to be quickly diminishing.

In an attractional church, the primary activity of the body, the front door where people are introduced to the church, is focused on being comfortable and exciting.  It therefore, unintentionally, feeds the consumer attitude already present in our society.

Now, I don't know yet how to fix this, but here are a few things I have come to believe firmly in the last year...

We have to stop making our front door (where people come to check us out) a worship service; we need to make it our lives.  People should not be encountering the Holy Spirit for the first time by watching believers worship.  They should be introduced to the Holy Spirit through the insane, crazy, wild, reckless, sacrificial love of Jesus that defines everything we do, every conversation we have, every breath we take.

We should not be known for our music, our teaching, our environments, or our kids programs.  We should be known for our humility, our brokenness, our passion for the poor, our acceptance of the outcast, our forgiving justice, our non-judgemental righteousness, and our generous giving of ourselves to others.

We must stop making the tools the point.  We have to recapture what Jesus meant when He said, "The Sabbath was made for man, not man for the Sabbath."  If we continue to make our worship service, our programs, our small groups, our activities, our spiritual disciplines the defining focus of what we do we will find ourselves loosing Jesus on the journey.

Let it be said that we carry in us the attitude of Jesus.  That we are people defined by our love for God and our love for others.   Let the world be amazed at how wildly we give of ourselves, at how recklessly we serve, at how humbly we live, and at how unsafely we love.  Let it be said that when you encounter one of us you never before felt so valued and cared for.  Let membership in our community not be defined by the where we are from 9:30 to Noon on a Sunday, but rather by our reputation in the community as people that live differently.

And let the cry of our lives be, "Jesus is Lord.  Tomorrow in eternity."

This is my hope for the church.

Jeff Elkins lives in Baltimore with his wife and three kids.  He recently left his job as a pastor and is working with a small team to rethink what it means to be the church in the inner city.  Jeff writes two blogs: one for the examiner.com and a personal one with his wife about their adventures.

Wow.

CannonBells

Wow.  How hardcore devoted are these guys.  I'm not 100% convinced it's real... but it's FASCINATING. 

I love this kind of over the top geekiness.  I wish we could only be so hardcore about our Savior.

Let's go CannonBells for Jesus! 

snnnoooooowwwwww!!!!

This is what Pondo looks like right now.  We will be there in t-minus 2 days.  I'm so excited.